How does one succeed in life?
14.06.2025 00:05
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
When sharing a wife, is it best with your buddy or a stranger?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.
Why is Harley-Davidson dropping diversity initiatives after the right-wing anti-DEI campaign?
That's it for today.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
What did someone say to you that instantly made you realize their life was in danger?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Ask yourself:
What are some hard rock or heavy metal bands that are overrated?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Why do I feel worthless most of the time?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Making more friends is a goal.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Why don't some people like the 10 Commandments?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
How is digital marketing important for business?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Procrastinates a lot.
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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Did you ever accidentally have sex with your brother/sister in India?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
What I need from you?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.